Reoccurring dreams

I have several. I have been able to find closure on a few. And  occasionally after the closure is made, they reappear after years. Some, I've been able to decipher. Some still elude me.
- I am at school, high school, college, it doesn't matter, but I don't know my schedule. I don't know which class I'm suppose to be going to next. I don't know where it is.

- I work at Wendy's - or McDonalds, or somewhere that has shifts that I am suppose to check the schedule, and clock in and out of, and get paid in a paper check every two weeks. I forget to go. I forget to check the schedule, and forget to pick up my check.

-I am back in England as a missionary. This has altered slightly, because I am seriously concerned that I have children that I have left at home, and don't want to be gone too long.

Newer reoccurring dreams involve:
 - A huge home that is unfinished and we have decided to move in and finish one room at a time.

-Roads, driving, crossing rivers.

-Friends and in the dream, they are not allowed to talk to me, or I am not allowed to talk to them. Based in my college town, and my hometown. I see the houses, the roads around campus, but no words.

I am tormented by dreams. I hate dreams. I hate dreaming. I hate waking up exhausted. I hate the emotions created  IN   MY   BRAIN   WHILE   I SLEEP.

I feel that if I have to dream about real life people, they should be tormented by me in their dreams. It is not fair that it is a one sided battle.